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Scotch Plains woman, faced with cancer, saw the world

By Tracee M. Herbaugh/ For the Star-Ledger

December 07, 2009, 7:40PM

SCOTCH PLAINS — In the sunroom of his home in Scotch Plains, retired U.S. Army Reserve Lt. Colonel Bernardo Canete flipped through a coffee table book titled “100 Wonders of the World,” stopping at the table of contents where check marks appear next to the destinations he and his wife have visited.

Among them: Angkor Wat in Cambodia, the Hagia Sophia in Turkey, Petra in Jordan and the Wailing Wall in Jerusalem.

un1203spobitlns2.JPGScotch Plains resident Teresita Canete spent her last three years fulfilling her dream of world travel. She’s seen here at the Egyptian pyramids. Diagnosed with cancer in 2002, the disease progressed and she died on Nov. 24.

Three years ago, facing a terminal illness, Teresita Canete quit her job, and she and her husband embarked on a quest to visit as many of the world’s great landmarks as they could. Before she died last month, she managed to see more than a dozen on four continents.

“Her goal was to hit all these places,” said Canete.

Teresita Canete died on Nov. 24 at age 63, after a seven-year battle with endometrial cancer.

A native of the Philippines, Teresita had nurtured a lifelong love of travel. But likely knowing her time to see the world was limited, she retired after almost 30 years as a nurse with the Veterans Administration in 2006 and began chemotherapy treatments.

Soon after she retired, Teresita, Bernardo and their two children went to Machu Picchu, an ancient Inca city nestled in the mountains of Peru.

As the chemotherapy progressed, her hair fell out, but that didn’t stop her from catching a flight to exotic destinations with her husband in between treatments. Teresita was influenced by the spirit of the author Jack Kerouac and said life without travel is only half-living.

“She just wanted to travel and do all of the things she always wanted to do,” her son, Rodney, said.

One of six children, Teresita was born on June 12, 1946 in Cebu, Philippines.

An avid reader, she cultivated her passion for learning and travel through literature.

“Even though she came from a wealthier family in the Philippines, it’s still is a Third World country, and people there don’t have a lot of money,” her son said. “Growing up, her travel was in books only.”

She obtained her nursing degree in 1968 and came to New York City three years later on an exchange program for health care professionals. The same year, her husband immigrated from Cebu in the Philippines.

They married in 1973 and later had two children, Rodney and Rachael. She earned a master’s degree in nursing from NYU and later joined the Army Reserves, where she served 21 years before retiring in 2005 with the rank of major.

Every year, she led her family on a trip. They visited the Caribbean and Europe and drove across the country in a van for two weeks.

But in the last three years of her life, the trips she and her husband took became more frequent. Because of personal and cultural reasons, Teresita was private about her illness. Friends and co-workers she knew for decades didn’t know she had cancer. But close friends had their suspicions she wasn’t well.

“I can’t think for her, but maybe she was thinking she was running out of time and she wanted to see as many places as she could,” said Carmen Lou, a family friend who knew Teresita for more than 40 years. “You know it’s the kind of thing where time is your enemy.”

Her last trip was a cruise from New York to Nova Scotia over the summer. She had plans for a January trip to the Philippines and Malaysia.

But, on Nov. 12 she checked into the hospital for complications of her illness, and almost two weeks later, she died.

At the time of her death, she had checked off 46 sites in the coffee table book, a Christmas gift from her son.

For now, her husband needs time before he considers continuing her quest to see all 100 of the wonders on the list.

“At this point in time, it hurts,” he said. “I would like to go, but I don’t think I can without her.”

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Thomas Quirk’s voice cracked as he recalled the horrific suffering of his wife of 39 years, his “Irish colleen,” in the months before her death from a perforated bowel — the result of medical negligence.

On Wednesday, the retired police officer and his two sons settled their wrongful-death lawsuit in Cook County Circuit Court against Little Company of Mary Hospital and two other entities in the 2004 death of Patricia Quirk, 60, a mental health expert who advocated for mental health services in Chicago and at the state level for more than 15 years.

The West Lawn family’s $7.5 million settlement with the hospital, her doctor, Vera Petras, and Radiation Oncology S.C. set a Cook County record for a settlement in a wrongful death of an adult with no minor children, according to their lawyer.

“She was chairperson of all 19 community mental health advisory boards in the city of Chicago. She’d work 60 hours a week sometimes, and it was all volunteer work,” said Thomas Quirk, 69.

After Patricia Quirk was diagnosed with stage three endometrial cancer, she began radiation therapy at Little Company of Mary on March 26, 2003. The first 11 treatments went fine, according to the suit, then she was overradiated — 17 times — which ultimately perforated her bowel and caused a bacterial infection in her blood and her death.

“The prescription called for 180 centigrays of radiation. She received 270 centigrays, which represents a 50 percent overdose,” said the family attorney, Barry Goldberg. “It could have been caught very early. When the data recording says 280, verification of her charts by human beings would have caught it should be 180. All they had to do was look at the charts.”

Hospital officials could not be reached for comment.

“It’s about making sure this never happens to anyone else,” Thomas Quirk said.

  

 
Cancer Patient’s Medical Debt Ends in Brother’s Credit Card Debt Settlement Victory Over Bankruptcy 

Funding his terminally ill sister’s cancer treatment, Francisco Peinado got plundered by credit card debt and endless collection calls. However, a sympathetic debt relief program rescued the victim of unemployment and mountainous medical debt from becoming a casualty of medical bankruptcy, which based on a New York Times article, is growing.

(PRWEB) January 10, 2010 — After the news from the Debt Free League financial adviser, Francisco Peinado basked in a bittersweet moment. He painfully reminisced of his sister’s arduous bout with cancer. Yet, December 30, 2009 marked a remarkable accomplishment. He was debt-free.

Peinado, a new graduate of the National Debt Relief Stimulus Plan (http://debtfreeleague.com/our_guarantee.html), initially joined the debt relief program somewhat skeptical. Unable to find the right solution to his debt, he had spent two torturous years gasping for air.

First, he lost his job of 15 years. The unforeseen event put his finances on the rocks. Whatever employment he found was unsuitable for his financial obligations.

For the past two years, he waited on tables as his income kept fluctuating.

Paying the bills grew tiresome. Although he paid on time, pleading with creditors to lower his interest rates wasn’t working. They just slammed their doors, stating they couldn’t help. His situation needed urgent attention.

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After a phone consultation with a Debt Free league financial adviser, Peinado decided a different path.

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Peinado felt comfort from the San Diego-based organization’s community involvement. Their personnel volunteered with aid during the 2007 San Diego wildfires, and are active participants with various charitable causes, such as the fight against AIDS, Leukemia, and domestic violence.

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The debt had been piling up since 2007 when his sister was diagnosed with uterine cancer.

Her financially and emotionally-draining illness changed his life.

Uterine cancer, also referred to as endometrial cancer, is the most common gynecological cancer in American women. 35,000 new cases are reported each year. The cancer, which grows in the muscular wall of the uterus, is curable with early detection.

However, doctors detected her cancer at a late stage. Abnormal cells had metastasized beyond her lymph glands into her fallopian tubes. Thereafter, cancerous growths invaded most of her body.

She eventually passed away, leaving Peinado independently fighting with substantial credit card debt (http://debtfreeleague.com/faq.html) and belligerent debt collectors.

Each day, Peinado mourns his sister’s passing. But is hopeful that time will take away the pain. For now, he has no more worries about creditor harassment, or his debt.

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Tom Devine, 56, has felt scared to death twice in his life.

The first time, he was 19, crammed in a plane bound for Vietnam with other jittery young soldiers who camouflaged their nerves with banter and bravado.

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The plane descended. The tough talk subsided. Beyond the windows, red machine gun tracers formed a fiery rope over the ground.Devine’s heart thudded in his ears. His mind was a rifle jammed with one round: “I’m going to die.”

The second time was 20 years later. Devine was a 40-year-old husband and father living in Flint. Tanned and fit, he was sitting on a paper-covered table in an examining room, awaiting news about what he’d once been convinced was a nagging gallbladder.

But it wasn’t his gallbladder. It was cancer.

“That word was the biggest, scariest thing in the world,” Devine said. “The first thing you think of is, ‘I’m going to die.'”

Devine had surprised himself by surviving his tour in Vietnam, despite a bout of malaria and injuries sustained when he drove a tank over a land mind.

His next tour of duty was with non-Hodgkins lymphoma, an immune-system cancer that strikes more than 71,000 Americans each year. Survival rates vary by type and stage.

Devine’s cancer was advanced. It was diagnosed as late Stage Three, within shouting distance of the fourth and final stage. By the time of his diagnosis, a large mass had a strangle-hold on his esophagus and aorta.
Devine was “fighting the war all over again,” he said.

But he had a lot to fight for.

“I’d look at my wife and my 7-year-old daughter and think, ‘If this is going to get me, it’ll have to get me with a fight.'”

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Devine underwent six months of rigorous chemotherapy. An electronics engineer, he scheduled his treatments around his work schedule.But 44 weeks of daily radiation therapy forced him to quit his job. While his wife, Donna, was at work and his daughter, Jenny, was at school, Devine was often home alone with too much time to brood.

“On good days, I thought, ‘I survived being wounded in Vietnam twice; I can get through this.’ On bad days, I wanted to give up. All cancer patients feel that way sometimes. If one of them tells you they haven’t, they’re lying.”
Chemo and radiation caused hair loss, vomiting, depression and fatigue. But they did the job. The cancer retreated.

When CAT scans could no longer detect any sign of the disease, Devine was given an indefinite furlough. He need only report back for checkups every three months.

Life returned to normal, but it was never the same.

“It was better,” Devine said. “Having cancer is having someone jerk your leash and say, ‘Life is here right now. Don’t take it for granted.’ That’s a good thing.”

Devine never again took for granted a kiss from his wife, a hug from his daughter, a walk with his dog. He lived in a state of heightened appreciation – until a week before each checkup.

“You notice the date on the calendar and you start to think about it,” he said. “You go to the appointment, scared to death they’re going to find something. Each time they don’t, you want to celebrate.”

Devine had 2 1/2 years of celebrations before he heard the words he dreaded: the cancer was back.

“I came home and cried for almost a whole day,” he said. “Then I said, ‘I’ve done it once. I guess I can do it again.'”

And again.

And again.

Devine is a seasoned veteran who has fought cancer four times. Each time, he’s beaten the enemy back with an improving arsenal of chemotherapy concoctions he irreverently dubs “Mountain Dew” and “Hawaiian Punch,” according to their colors.

Somewhere along the way, Devine stopped obsessing about dying, and gave up trying to predict when death would come.

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“My time card can be punched any day, but that’s true of all of us. I decided that only God knows when I’m going to die. In the meantime, he must have a plan for me.”With a new sense of purpose, Devine volunteered with the American Cancer Society and the Great Lakes Cancer Institute.

He was featured in a McLaren Regional Medical Center commercial about cancer treatment.

He ran a local support group for cancer patients and their families, and lectured publicly on what he calls “the positive aspects of cancer.”

In 1999, his activities were put on hold when he received a bone marrow transplant, courtesy of a sister who was a near-perfect match.

Treatments to prepare him for the transplant left him so weak that it took him four hours to take a shower. He suffered bouts of depression and anxiety. He developed an immune suppression disease that has left him with chronic pain and the loss of pigment in his skin and hair.

“The transplant aged me 20 years,” he said. “I’m still working on getting my strength back. Right now I’m at about 75 percent.”

Feeling better by the month, Devine knows he is living proof that cancer, even if it strikes repeatedly, does not have to mean imminent death.

He has been free of the disease for seven years – his longest remission since his original diagnosis 16 years ago.

He has lived to see his young daughter become a grown woman. In July, he and Donna will celebrate their 22nd wedding anniversary.

Devine dreams of someday bouncing a grandchild on his knee. He wants to take Donna on a vacation to Hawaii. He’d like to start a new support group for cancer survivors and their families, and is ready to resume his public speaking.

“I want to get the word out that having cancer doesn’t mean you’re necessarily going to die. I’m Stage Three, and I’m still here.”

Like all good soldiers, Devine knows that the enemy is stubborn and can return at any time. But he also knows its weaknesses.

“There are a lot of things cancer can’t do,” Devine said. “It can’t take away spirit, love, friendship or faith.”

What it can do is teach you the value of life.

“I enjoy each day,” Devine said.

“Cancer has taught me to love better, love deeper and love more.”

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